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Uburyo abigeme bomenya ko abasore bavugishije ukuri mukubasaba urukundo
jeudi 11 Mukakaro 2013
Birashika ko umuntu agusaba urukundo maze ukarumwima kuko atarukundo umufiseko, canke ukarumuha kubera impuhwe umufitiye, ndetse ari naho ukunda umuntu kubera ibintu wamubonyeko, ukamukunda ku bw’amafaranga wamubonanye, ariko mu vy’ukuri atarukundo umukunda.
Mu bihugu vyateye imbere ho bisigaye ari ikibazo gikomeye, kuko umuntu arashobora kukwikundishako mu ganshinga urugo ariko atarukundo na ruto agufitiye, ariko inyuma yaho, agatangura kurondera imvo zotuma mwahukana hanyuma intumbero yiwe akayishikako agafata amwe mu matungo yiwawe agatwara ayahawe n’amategeko.
Hari ibintu umuntu yoshingirako kugira urabe umenye ko vyukuri ukwiyumvira ko mwohebana ndetse ukabishira no mu ngiro vyoba vyavuye ku mutima, haba mu Burundi canke mu bindi bihugu :
1.Uburyo abikubarira ni kimwe mu vyokwereka ko avugisha ukuri.
Ntiwopfa kumenya ko umuntu akubwiza ukuri ariko raba icubahiro, ukwiyorosha n’agaciro abivuganye. Niyaba agusavye urukundo yiyemeye cane, asa nk’uwugutegeka, burya aba akubeshe.
2.Ahantu abikubwiriye hashobora kukwereka ko urukundo arukeneye vyukuri.
Nk’iyo agusavye urukundo, akarugusaba imbere y’abantu benshi bakuzi kandi nawe bamuzi hari amanota aba yongeyeho kurusha aho yogusabiye urukundo mu mpisho. Kandi, hari ahantu haba hadakwiriye kuvugirwa amagambo meza y’urukundo.
3.Igihe abikubariye, kuko hari igihe kitaba arico gusaba urukundo.
Akarorero, nk’igihe agusanze uri kukigandandaro c’umuntu wawe canke c’uwundi akahagusabira urukundo, urumva ko ariko arakugushinyagurira. Canke akagusaba urukundo mu gihe yaborewe, urumva ko akubwira ibadatonze k’umurongo kandi bidahwanye.Muri icogihe, avuga ibisunitswe n’impwemu vyose kandi bitaroranye
Ikintu cose kigira umwanya waco niyo mpamvu n’umuntu ugusaba urukundo adategerezwa kugufatira aho akuboneye hose.
4.Imvo yamuteye kugusaba urukundo ningombwa kuyimubaza
Ukamubaza ica mutumye agana wewe n’impamvu yumva yipfuza ko urukundo rwanyu rwobaho. Ukamenya nimba ari urukundo rwa kanya gato canke urukundo rugiye kubandanya gushika urupfu rubatandukanye. Mu gihe wumvise ko impavu zo mutumye aza kuri wewe zidafadika, vyiza womusezera ukamubwiza ukuri ko bidashoboka.
Joel Sengurebe
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30 Ntwarante 2016, 12:43, par Emile
None Iyo Muhuriye Mwibarabara Akama Amera Nkuwubikubawira Agusaba Kowoj Kumuramuts wagenda Akagufata Nk’umushitsi Adasanzwe Hoho Uwo Muntu Ntiyoba Agukunda Vyukuri?
5 Ruheshi 2016, 17:40, par evode dushime
murakoze nikazima mubi mbiye
8 Ruheshi 2016, 23:31, par Ndihokubwayo egide
Bt jew fis umukobw naramukunz cane bamutongoz aribesh noe nkorik? Bituma nimitom igabanuk
12 Ruheshi 2016, 21:56, par Bluce Nshimirimana
Jew Nkunze Umukobw Ariko Wew Sinz Ko Ankunz Mwofasha Iki?
27 Ruheshi 2016, 20:57, par Astere
Ngirango Aragukunda!
21 Mukakaro 2016, 20:35, par prosper
mfis tmukunzi nshaka kumenya kwanknda vyukuri
9 Myandagaro 2016, 06:44, par Eiias
nivyiza
28 Myandagaro 2016, 19:14, par miburo innocent
ivyomwandika nukuri pe! ariko hari umuntu usaba urukundo akibaza ngo umutima urarutse haheze igihe mukundanye agatangura kukwima umwanya canke murikumwe agahaguruka akagenda atagusezeye none nkuwo wumva yoba agukunda canke afise abandi
11 Nyakanga 2016, 16:29, par Ndikumukiza augustin
nivyo?!?
14 Gitugutu 2016, 19:48, par Claude
Haaa! Ivyurukund Ntivyorosh
25 Munyonyo 2016, 20:20, par Mushengezi Léonce
Nukur Mwarakoz Kaub Mwarafashij Aban Babant Murukund!Nukur Mwaradutohorej!Kabis Birakwiy K Wasaba Urukund Wiyumviriy Kand Utuj!Kand Ukabifatir Umwany!N Léonce
9 Kigarama 2016, 15:03, par emmanuel mukaryasi iburundi
nukuri umukobwa wubu yabanumugbngu wubu bose dukunda amaronko nihahandi jegusa narose umwana wumwigeme ankunda sinoreba ivyo kuko ibintu nibiro nderw
27 Kigarama 2016, 22:31, par NTAKARUTIMANA JOACHIM
NNE MUKUNDANY GUSAMBAN NI VYIZA?
22 Nzero 2017, 14:12, par eric hafashimana
nyungisha amajambo wokoresha mukwaka urukundo muzoba mukoze
5 Ruhuhuma 2017, 20:50, par Dusabe Antoine
Nyigish’amajambo wobwira Umukobwa Kugira yisime Muzoba Mukoze.
11 Ruhuhuma 2017, 07:26, par Edoird
Ndabaramukij Nagomba Imitoma Ya Mbere Yogusaba Urukundo Yukuri
28 Ruhuhuma 2017, 07:53, par Patrick
Iyo Mukundaye N,Umukobwa Kanaka Akagusaba Ivyumuha Abagombiki? Canke Nigiki Kimenyesha Umuhungu Ko Umukobwa Amukunda?
11 Ntwarante 2017, 13:31, par Kenny Alec Nimubona
Ni ikih kintu cokwereka ko umukobwa agukunda vyukuri
nanj ndipfuza imitoma ya mbere yo gusab urukundo rw’ukuri
25 Ntwarante 2017, 14:40, par Simeon
None Ni Kubera Iki Umukobwa Umusaba Urukundo Akarukwima Kandi We Wavyipfuza Cane Ko Mukundana Urw’ibihe Vyanye Vyose?
30 Ntwarante 2017, 22:00, par Nimpaye Cedrick
urukundo rwibihe vyose ruba rumeze gute?
1er Ndamukiza 2017, 21:15, par nizigiyimana jbosco
nkundumukobwa mugabo iyotwicaranye ahora abwira atokwemera yuko ndamukunda.Nimungire inama yukuntunobimwumbisha murakoze
4 Ndamukiza 2017, 15:59, par Mahulidhi
Kweri Bisab Ukwitonda Murivyo
14 Ndamukiza 2017, 16:18, par MEDINE
IVYO NIVY VRAIMENT ARIKO HARI UWUKUBWIRA NGO ICO YAGUKUNDIY NICO BENSHI BATAZI MUGA NTAKIKUBWIRE HOHO WOVYIFATAMWO GUTE?
16 Ndamukiza 2017, 06:08, par Sindayigaya Audace
Je Fise Umukobwa Naramubwiye Ndamubajij Ko Ankunda Avuga Ko Akunda Abantu Bos Mugab Nkab Nzi Ko Afise Uwundi Akunz Baban Hafi Duhuye Arampa Umwanya Wo Kuganira Naw,non Mbandanye?
23 Ndamukiza 2017, 20:58, par PONTIEN Kabavenge
IVYO NIVYO PE MURAKOZE CANE.
26 Ndamukiza 2017, 19:55, par Ndayishimiye.Jérémie
Jewendakundamugabo.Ntamukozeko.Abona.Umengondamwanka.Mwofashiki?
5 Rusama 2017, 23:25, par Fabie Ntirampeba
None womenya gute ko umukobwa agukunda vyukuri??
12 Rusama 2017, 16:41, par jean claude irakoze
ndabshimiy kunkuru mudushkiriza zinyura bweng nn niryari umuntu agra ivyipfuzo bidafse?
13 Rusama 2017, 15:05, par Petronie kwizerimana
non ntashobora kugusab urukund kand avyiyumvamw naw uvyiyumvamw bigahinduka munyuma?nikuki non hagera igihe mukikuranamw burundu vyukur mub mwarakundana?
25 Rusama 2017, 20:40, par Irakoze Joël
Ivyubu Nihatari Aho Usanga Umukobwa Akunda Abahungu Nka 3 Nabagabo Nkatatu Nimuntoze Ingigo Nokoresha Hari Umbariye Hakugiha Umusore Ngo Wogiha Ugabo Wewe Atabivuga Basore Dufate Iki
26 Rusama 2017, 16:49, par Irakoze Joël
Nkuze Umukobwa Ashaka Koturyamana Narase Niyumviriye Kwashaka Kunteza Ingorane Mwontoza Umugambi Nokoresha Ko Ntarubaka
28 Rusama 2017, 12:47, par pamphyle
none nkumukobwa muhuriye ahantu akarorero kurugendo nkomugihe ugombe ufate bus utamubwiye impamvu umukundiye mbega urworukundo ruzorama
10 Ruheshi 2017, 22:10, par MANIRAKIZA
NONE KUBUBATSE WOMENYA GUTE KO UMUGORE AGUKUNDA?MBE KUMUGABO HO?
17 Ruheshi 2017, 09:13, par Emmanuel Turikumwenayo
mbora Nibaza Igituma Umukobwa Ashobora Kukwemera Ko Umukunda Hama Agahindura Kand Ataco mupfuye Akakubwiza Ukuri Kataco Mupfuye Ngaho Umuntu Yobifata Gute?
20 Mukakaro 2017, 23:54, par ezechiel ndayisAba
Jeew l nar nkunz umikobw tumRany imusk 4 ark uyumjs ysmbwiy na arampe nn nzomurogesh
4 Myandagaro 2017, 10:09, par Irankunda
abigeme Nibumve Kabisa!
6 Myandagaro 2017, 13:02, par Innocent Ntakarutimana Muco
ego cane ivyo ni bimwe muri vyinshi borabirako ko umuhungu abavugishje abakunda vyukuri.nne mugihe har acpfa kwemera urukundo badatohje kw’ivy muvuze vyogenda gte kugra abmenye rumaze gtangura?
16 Myandagaro 2017, 13:53, par YVES
MUTUBWIYE.UKURI.ARIKO.BIRAGOYEKUMENYA.KUMUNTU.YAGUKUNZE.HARUBIVUGA.ATABIKUYE.KUMUTIMA.UKABONA’KO.ARIBYO.ARIKO.UGASANGA.NTASHINGIRO.BIFITE.MURAKOZE
16 Myandagaro 2017, 20:05, par SAMUELLA
NI MUNSIGURIRE UBWOKO BWAYA MASHURWE "ORANGE,IROZA,ROUGE,UBURURU
17 Myandagaro 2017, 20:00, par IRISHURA Léo Bely Igiraneza
IVYO NIVYO WOKORA.URITONDA UKABIMUSAB NAWENYENE ARAHANT YOROHEWE.
19 Myandagaro 2017, 09:06, par Pontien
murakoz Kuri Izo Mpanuro Muduhaye!
17 Rusama 2018, 19:15, par Manirakiza
Andika hanoj nagomb mbabaz none wo menya gute ko umukobwa agukunda vyukuri?
16 Munyonyo 2018, 20:49, par NKURUNZIZA EREVANI
Andika hano
16 Munyonyo 2018, 21:07, par NKURUNZIZA innocent
nasaka kubabaza kugira umukobwa ubone kwagukunda vyogenda gute?